I sometimes have to ask the question of is it possible for a user to fall in love with a web cam girl. I guess falling in love with a web cam girl is the same as falling in love with the cute looking girl that works at the McDonalds drive through. Did I ever fall in love with a web cam model? Honestly I like a lot of web cam models some for their personalities and some for their image, but there is one web cam model I wish I could clone to be my girlfriend/wife.(I wont say her name). It�s really hard for me to list the names of models I like because they all bring something special to their performances.

Nevertheless, reality sets in and the only way I can be with her is in my dreams Maybe I am not in love with her, but I am in love with the idea of being in love with her. One important thing users forget is that web models don�t belong to any user they belong to the whole world for the purchase of credits/time. And at the end of the day all these web cam models have really complex lives consisting of boyfriends/husbands/girlfriends, kids, school and food to put on the table as well as bills to pay.

Because in the same way she services customers/users in the same way. Most of the web cam girls provide a service and that service is namely fulfilling the fantasies/wishes of the users. We all started out as anonymous greys, then we were hypnotized and registered and became whites and for those who wanted more action and deeper access to their favorite models they became gold VIP members. Which provided user�s further access to their favorite models VODS and other recorded performances?

So why do users come to Flirt4Free because they become addicted to their favorite web cam girl. That�s why you see in every room just about every web cam girl has what I call a web cam girl groupie or like the model Rachael Evans likes to say they are her bitchs. Meaning once you are hypnotized by a web cam model you are owned and you become her bitch, LMAO.

For example, a user named Suggs hangs out in Amberlys Banks room, owl hangs out in Rachael Evans room and a user named Red Dog hangs out in Alyssah Simone�s room. Porncock hangs out in Ashlee Adams room. These are prime examples of what I call web cam girl groupies. However, discussing web cam girl groupies is another topic entirely, more on that later in a follow-up post.
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I deffinately think it's possible for it to happen and I think it happens more often than we'd actually imagine. I think that some customers (I want to say guys but maybe it happens for girls too) have a hard time seperating fantasy from reality. I think one very strong sign of it is when a member gets jelous because someone else takes the model private, or maybe the model has lots of people in the room and can't pay as much attention to that one user so they gets affected over it. Some people just can't understand it and even leads them to act in stalker ways or just very unmature. I think it's also very dangerous when a model leads a costumer on to believing they can be together in real life in order to keep the costumer coming back. I've seen some guys act VERY stupid on here because they've obviously fallen in love with a model and an idea that isn't real, it's just akward and usually ends up in the model having to ban them.

As far as webcam groupies go I don't see anything wrong with that as long as they are doing it in a healthy manner and a way they can afford. They just enjoy a model and want to have fun with that model. That really isn't any different than millions of people who will subscribe to a pornstars website or even for that matter any kind of fansite or forum (doesn't have to be adult oriented). /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

What is even worse, is if the cam model falls in love with you! /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

blue - get ya facts right - its NOT just amberlys room I am found in !!

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I think I am in trouble, I think I love a model's toy...it is so shiny and slick...oh yea, I think it loves me too...it has my name on it. Wait did she buy it that way?? Damn it I hate having the last name Johnson /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

Oh Boy, Ryan.

You hit the nail on the head!

One guy who wanted a show was FURIOUS when he saw I was in another show when he arrived.

He never came back after he vented some anger towards me.

It is not like we had a date or anything.......

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One other thing, I think there really are some people who fixate upon models until it becomes an obsession.

What the person "in love" needs to realize is that hooking up is never going to happen.

Especially if the person in love is in another country from the person they love.

For example, I am in love with Saphira, but she is in Australia and I am in the US! /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

Well actually it does happen. But I wouldn't count on it happening.

The best place for a F4F relationship to remain is F4F. It's 99.99% of the time for the best /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

Well actually it does happen. But I wouldn't count on it happening.
The best place for a F4F relationship to remain is F4F. It's 99.99% of the time for the best


It's that .01% chance that gets them in so much trouble! /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

i would have a long story here about models falling for costumer but i wont tell here.but i swear that it can happen!/images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

i would have a long story here about models falling for costumer but i wont tell here.but i swear that it can happen!


If you have a love story about a Flirt4Free model you should post it. It would be an interesting read./images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

blue - get ya facts right - its NOT just amberlys room I am found in !!


LMAO I was just using your name as an example. However, that was a funny reply, I have seen your name in a lot of other models rooms./images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

If you have a love story about a Flirt4Free model you should post it. It would be an interesting read.


i said 'model falling for a costumer!'..not the oposite/images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

What is even worse, is if the cam model falls in love with you!


Does this ever happen ? /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

Q. What happens when a user falls in love with a webcam model?

A. They spend a shed load of money... /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

Only when you are irresistable as you Blue!

I reckon it probably happens more often than they let on. But they have a highly powerful cattle prod to shock themselves back into reality in case they do anything stupid like get involved with a guy who met them on a...ahem... adult orientated web site. /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

I know of 1 former model that met a guy thru here and is now Married to him and that is as much as I am saying./images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

I know of 1 former model that met a guy thru here and is now Married to him and that is as much as I am saying.


WOW ! Now that was interesting to hear...../images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }

I know of a former model, a guy from Bulgaria, who met a member, a girl from USA, thru here

They are now happily married and living in USA

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Ok, I have to straighten this out... Ashlee Adams is the one in love with me. HaHaHa! Thanks for the mention Blue. /images/_common/forums/emoticons/' }